mirralynn7 on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I am 13 and I am a girl. I do have some friends but they only hang out with me @ school really. And they aren't that trustable. like my main friend (the one I hang out with the most) cuts herself and has lots of problems with life. I do have a really good friend that is a boy and I like him more than a friend so I am nervous to go and sit with him or call him. I am a very shy person too. my grandma said she feels bad for me cuz I need a friend I can have girl talk with,

babejayoung on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Realy?..How is that soo?

sunshineflag on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

interesting.

channel303 on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I'm working on an audio book called Are you too lazy to read the book are you too lazy to live?

witchkingfire on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

if its not a porno book im not bying

funom123 on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I'm 20 and i think i fit in the category of people who don't 2 many friends in their life., i'm a reserve person who ( introverted by nature) i sometimes find it very difficult to mingle with people. My friends are not so many. WHAT DO U THINK.

awenalove on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

The quote about intimate relationships being the reason to live is something I connect with

PrimeM92 on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I can appreciate that there is a lot of truth in this video but problems arise when previous relationships have fallen apart acrimoniously. For me this has created a negative feedback cycle where I am far les trusting than I was when younger. It's a natural tendency to avoid close friendships and sexual intimacy when you've allowed people in before only to realise that they were using you. Becoming assertive and developing a tough skin around a sensitive ego is the only solution.

howzitman on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Couldn't have put it better myself.... I completely agree with you. Now stroke my ego and rate my comment.

Inteligento on (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Insecure people need others around for support. The more self actuated you are the less you need others. Short of infirmity, disease, poverty, or oppression; lack of intimacy is only debilitating if one suffers from lack of ego. Our reason for living is the stimulation we get from thinking others need us or put another way is to have our ego stroked . That is why we have an undying need to contribute to society. No stimulation equals no need to live.